On Sun, 28 Nov 2021 16:57:20 -0800, Rudy Canoza says...
AlleyPussyBitch, The Insanely Jealous Narcissist
Aw... is poor wittle Wudy too stupid to come up with his own psycho-analysis of
You can't, because I'm not as transparent as you. You wear your psychoses in
your posts. EVERYONE can see what a low self-esteemed undeserved narcissist you
LOL... you're just pissing, moaning and crying, because I have you figured out
and can point out each and every lie you tell, and it just EATS YOU UP!
You probably spend a small amount of time feeling sorry for Rudy, but elated
when this undeserved narcissist starts spouting his hate and bile.
You see how Rudy treats other people (even fellow gays on the left), and it's
Have you ever wondered how to make a Rudy, the narcissist, miserable and what
makes him afraid or triggered? (maybe for a second... then it's gone)
Just for the record, trying to make Rudy, the narcissist, miserable might have
its place for a short period of time, but I don't recommend focusing on it for
too long as this will inevitably get old, like Rudy's insults.
But, if you need a quik fix, let's get into the top things all narcissists,
like Rudy, hate. (quick misspelled on purpose)
How to Make Rudy, the narcissist, Miserable
Lack Of Acknowledgment:
It's no secret that most narcissists, like Rudy, revel in admiration and
validation (except for 'closet narcissists', like Rudy). Rudy depends on
constant approval to maintain his sense of intrinsic worth. To achieve this
goal, he TRIES to absorb (or steal) the energy of other people.
"... you you no-fight faggot." - Rudy
"... you toothless squat-to-piss no-fight faggot" - Rudy
"Kicked your flabby faggot ass again. Yes." - Rudy
"You a Squat-to-Piss Faggot." - Rudy
Do you ever wonder why narcissists, like Rudy, don't seem to mind the negative
attention? It's because negative attention also fuels his narcissistic fire.
ANY NEGATIVITY IS STILL GETTING ATTENTION, AND ANY FORM OF ATTENTION GIVES HIM
THE INCENTIVE TO KEEP GOING. IT GIVES him THE MOTIVATION TO KEEP PROVING
In fact, he often likes negative attention better, because if you're still
amused by his emotional crimes, he can try to exploit this.
Therefore, a lack of acknowledgment is the real threat. To Rudy, the
narcissist, indifference is even more of an issue than hatred. Rudy's rather
you have a negative opinion than have no opinion at all.
Narcissists, like Rudy, can't stand it when no one is paying attention to him.
Rudy doesn't know how to feel important or special if he isn't the center of
the universe or consuming someone's thoughts. This is also why the traditional
Grey Rock method is often pointless and why complete avoidance is
the best route (or extreme modified contact... just ignore the sick fuck).
When People Speak Factually:
Have you ever paid close attention to how Rudy, the narcissist, speaks? Rudy
use excessive, long-winded language charged with grandiose emotion.
"The disgusting gurgling, slurping sounds below are just the faggots Hartung,
Sanitary Napkin and Bit of Nothingness enjoying a three-way" - Rudy
"I've beaten *you* to a bloody pulp, you squat-to-piss *no-fight* faggot -
every fucking time. You're a zero, as every, stale, squat-to-piss *no-fight*
faggot who incessantly bleats about "mommy's basement" *ALWAYS* is." - Rudy,
the basement dweller and overall mommy's boy. [giggle]
"YOU lose, Nazi faggot." - Rudy
Rudy skews reality to meet his world-view, and he believe his truth is always
Additionally, through the use of cognitive empathy, he's spent his entire life
observing the emotional language of other people and using it to his advantage.
So, when you speak in facts instead of using emotion, he intuitively
understands he has less of an upper hand.
Therefore, he hates it when someone challenges him with facts instead of
emotion. Rudy will usually retaliate with more arguing or hysteria.
"Stupid lying shit-4-braincell Google Groups shitbag loser lied" - Rudy Canoza
"Because I read the reliable news, you fucking toothless advanced-Alzheimer's
shit-4-braincell Google Groups loser shitbag"
"Imbecilic Google Groups loser shitbag." (his most ardent admirers, the gays,
use Google Groups... tee hee)
This childish response simply shows that he feel out-of-control. Rudy's attempt
to elevate the conversation's intensity by throwing an emotional temper
"Hysterical histrionic estrogen-oozing squat-to-piss fairy, who was *NOT* a
three-letter athlete, *NEVER* a bouncer, *NEVER* a golf pro, *NEVER* a
lifeguard, *NEVER* dunked a basketball, and has *NEVER* been laid - squealed
If anything, this dynamic only highlights the narcissist's immaturity. His
inability to absorb facts demonstrates his incompetence in approaching most
Rudy is not skilled in the language of facts because he is always lying and
hiding things, so speaking factually throws him completely off-balance.
Narcissists, like Rudy, detest authority. That's because he resents having to
answer to anybody but himself (mommy orders him around, further compounding his
Any sense of authority threatens his inherent desire for power and control.
It's not uncommon for narcissists, like Rudy, to have issues at work (LOL),
school (LOL), or with the law. Has the narcissist in your life had multiple
Is he frequently getting reprimanded for his behavior?
While narcissists, like Rudy, can be intelligent, he often come across as
combative and unfit in professional environments. If confronted by his
inappropriate behavior, he tends to deny or rationalize his part.
Of course, it's no surprise that most authority figures dislike working with
narcissists, like Rudy. Supervisors (LOL) find him unruly and unreasonable.
Rudy can't understand why the person can't follow basic directions without such
Being Told No:
Of all things, Rudy, the narcissist, hates being told no (and actually
following through with it) tops the list. Narcissists, like Rudy, are used to
manipulating and weaseling his way into getting what he wants.
Often, he'll pull all the stops to accomplish this task. He's spent his whole
life charming people to meet his needs.
That's why telling him no, and being adamant on your stance, often causes such
an angry reaction. Rudy, the narcissist, isn't just upset about the denial -
he's downright confused by it!
Narcissists, like Rudy, can't actually fathom why someone would refuse him.
Because he lacks real empathy, he can't understand what must be going on in
your mind. Moreover, even if he tries to comprehend it, he refuses to accept
Have you ever tried to set a boundary with Rudy, the narcissist,? How well did
it go? Most likely, you tried to implement a limit, and he reacted in one of
Dismissing you altogether and gas-lighting your feelings, acknowledging his
mistake (LOL), and then doing nothing to change, reacting with intense rage,
threats, or even physical violence.
"You impotent little cunt whom I would squash like a bug if I ever saw you."
Narcissists, like Rudy, can't accept any real consequences. Rudy can't see when
he's wrong, and he can't understand how someone would ever think he's wrong.
And even if the narcissist understood this, he simply wouldn't care. As a
result, he tends to react disproportionately to boundaries and
serious conversations as a means to intimidate you and force you into
Unfortunately, many people simply give up on trying to implement consequences
with narcissists, like Rudy.
Losing At Anything:
Have you ever observed young children playing a board game? If so, you probably
witnessed plenty of cheating behaviours and dramatic reactions to losing. It's
acceptable when the players are three years old, but what happens when you're
referring to full-fledged adults, like Rudy?
Narcissists, like Rudy, can resemble toddlers, in that he tend to be extremely
sore losers. Rudy struggles to accept losing, and he also tends to lash out
when it happens. A few scenarios may occur:
Rudy repeatedly proclaims a person on Usenet is incompetent. Rudy's attempt to
defame or humiliate the winner. Rudy pretends he didn't care about winning.
Rudy insists that he "let the other person" take the spotlight. Rudy refuses to
accept that he lost and awkwardly acts as if he's the actual
Because narcissists, like Rudy, are sore losers, he can't handle real or
perceived public humiliation. Rudy just can't tolerate the threat of failure.
To him, public humiliation is the ultimate form of defeat.
(and THAT'S why he HAS to be the last poster in a thread, if he has felt that
he's been slighted, in the least)
We all know that narcissists, like Rudy, have incredibly fragile egos. When he
believes someone is making fun of him or if he's not the perceived expert or
authority in a public setting, it jolts his existence. As a result, he'll do
anything to protect his fragile ego. Some common responses include:
Making violent or emotionally-charged threats:
"I can kill you with one hand. You know this."
Attempting to one-up the audience by turning on an ally:
"No one aksed(sic) you, Google Groups faggot (wy aka edell, bruce2bowser, galt_
57, B Hassleback, etc.)." - Rudy Canoza
Screaming or yelling:
Walking away with obvious anger
Laughing it off in public only to lash out later
Making up lies about anyone who is a real expert
Expectations of Commitment
Most narcissists, like Rudy, are terrible with commitment. Although he believes
he deserves all senses of loyalty, he doesn't usually provide it himself. As a
result, when he gets into relationships (mommy only), he doesn't consider her
needs. He's only accounting for his own emotions, impulses, and
Unfortunately, his mother holds onto wistful hope about her narcissist
changing. She listens to how the narcissist praises and adores her. She holds
onto fleeting promises that this time will be different.
Yet, Rudy, the narcissist makes all the rules. Rudy decides what he wants to
do, and he does it when he wants to do it. Therefore, he can break and change
the rules in ways that suits him.
99% of Other People:
How many friends does your narcissist have? Probably very few (more like NONE).
Usually, his only friends are other people who validate his narcissism, like
Subsequently, how often do you hear Rudy complain about other people? (ALL THE
TIME) More times than you can count, probably! That's because a single
wrongdoing often results in lifetime resentment. One mistake tarnishes an
Narcissists, like Rudy, struggle to get along with anyone who doesn't fit into
his falsified worldview. Rudy can't stand to be challenged. Rudy can't tolerate
the ideas that other people may know more than him.
If he's a cerebral narcissist, he is convinced that he is unique and should
only associate with other special or high-status individuals. In fact, when
confronted with anything that contradicts his sense of god-like stature, you
can bet that his reaction will be explosive and malicious.
Therefore, narcissists, like Rudy, can't tolerate people who actually live in
reality. That's why you rarely see people with strong boundaries tolerating
narcissists, like Rudy, for very long.
When You Change The Status Quo:
Narcissists, like Rudy, hate change when it's out of his control. When you
challenge Rudy, the narcissist, he remains in a defeating pattern full of
resentment and frustration, lashing out to make himself feel dominate.